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writes:Well I'm 15 and I have a 15 year old boyfriend that is about to turn 16. We have been together for 9 months and We have had protected sex a few times and had no worries about it. But lately I have been getting pregnancy signs and I missed my pariod. I can't tell my parents or go to the doctor. And I can't think of a way to get a pregnancy test. It's extra hard because my parents don't even know I have a boyfriend, I would tell them but they don't allow me to date him because he is black and I am white. But I really love him so I can't just leave him. I have no idea what to do, PLEASE HELP.
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reader, Alli100 +, writes (16 April 2009):
Alli100 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey Yall, just gonna let you know that i took 2 tests and they both came out negative.
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reader, Alli100 +, writes (7 April 2009):
Alli100 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell yes i told my boyfriend i might be pregnant and he is all for being there for me and the baby. And i found a friend that can get me a test. I will have it by Monday or Tuesday, so i will let everyone know what happens.
But thank you all for the advice.
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reader, platinumfocus  +, writes (7 April 2009):
 First off, you need to find out whether you are pregnant. If for whatever reason you can't go buy a pregnancy test, ask your boyfriend, a friend, or a trusted adult to get one for you.
If you are pregnant, will you keep the baby? Either way, you're boyfriend deserves to know, it's his child too. If you're having an abortion, you may need to tell your parents, depending on where you live.
If you plan to keep the baby, do you think your boyfriend will be involved? If you're parent don't want you in a interracial relationship, how would they feel about you having a mixed race baby? In the end, it's your baby, and your decision to make. And in the future, always use protection.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009): OMG!! thats a real toughie
tell your boyfriend you may be pregnant (if he loves you he'll understand)and say your a bit embarssed to get a pregnancy test and ask him to go buy you a home pregnancy kit then if you're pregnant you'll need to decide whether or not you wanna keep the baby and if you don't then go to your local clinic and get an abortion over the holidays just ask for the tablets you get(i know it sounds bad but would you rather lose your parents + bf + ruin your teens with a baby) then just carry on as before but use protection and within a year you'll be sixteen and you can get a job and you and your bf can save up fr a few years if you's get jobs and you's can be together.it'll be hard and it'll take a while but it'l be worth it being wi the guy you truely love 3
i hope you work it out xx
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