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writes:Okay, heres the story, me and boyfriend of 7 months have decided to sleep together and I am a virgin, he isn't, my question is once you know we have slept together, what do you do, my mate says you should go to the toilet, why? I just thought hugged. Reply to this Question
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reader, daletom  +, writes (7 April 2009):
Especially for people who are just becoming sexually active, there is some evidence that urinating immediately after intercourse reduces the chances of infection in the urinary tract. (The problem is sometimes called "honeymoon bladder" or "honeymoon cystitis".)
Apart from that, some folks - both men and women - have an urge to wash and clean up even before the last orgasmic contractions are finished. Others consider such behavior insulting, as if they are being accused of spilling battery acid on their partner. Many couples enjoy sharing the intimacy of afterglow, continuing to make love after the intercourse has completed. Cleaning up ruins the mood. They may postpone the clean-up for many minutes, an hour, or even the next day. And some actually find the warm stickiness of their combined love juices to be either erotic or very intimate in is own right.
If you are cuddlers and using condoms, be VERY CAREFUL! As his erection subsides the condom will leak semen, and all the "protection" you have been counting on will be lost. The suggested way to deal with this is to remove and dispose of the condom, wash his genitals, and put on a fresh condom (a smaller size, if necessary) before continuing to snuggle and cuddle. Like I said above - it tends to kill the mood.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): Be yourself. If you run away from experiencing something great - what kind of experience is it?
Show him you care - www.guyscrytoo.com
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reader, -NothingLasts4ever- +, writes (6 April 2009):
 When I first had sex, me and my boyfriend just stayed on his bed and hugged and kissed and stuff.
Personally, I think that's what you should do. You've just shared a very special moment together, why run off to the toilet and ruin that moment?
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (6 April 2009):
 Well it all depends on what you want to do next and whatever comes naturally. Maybe your mate goes to the toilet to clean up a bit.
More importantly is what he does before you have sex... Put a condom on.
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reader, answeringmachine +, writes (6 April 2009):
After you sleep together you can either stay and cuddle or hug or whatever you want. Most people end up going to the toilet just to clean up a bit and sometimes after doing stuff they do have to use it also. You can always come back and hug and spend more time together, which is certainly better than just going home or something haha. I hope this is helpful, and please remember to use protection, that's extremely important. It keeps you from a lot of stress and worrying later, trust me.
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