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female
age
30-35,
*francy
writes: i was dating two cousins (T and S) when T found out he confronted me and ordered me to choose between the two of them, because i love T, i chose him and end things with S but i did'nt let him(S) know it was over so he kept on telling people that we were still dating until it reached T's ears again(for the second time) this time T was fed up with hearing my relationship with S so he decided to end things me without asking whether it was true or not.. since i did'nt know what led to him making such decision because things were just fine between us at the moment , i tried to move on... after some few days i realized i was still in love with T so i decided to ask him if we could make up, but he said he will only do that if i officially end my relationship with his cousin (S) i told him i ended it a while ago and he agreed but we could not get back together at that moment because we both moved on... last Saturday i decided to call S and end things officially via the phone, we exchanged greetings well but when i told him i wanted to end things he got very pissed and started calling me bad names like "slut , fool and bitch" i then thought of telling T about it, when i told him the whole story he asked whether i slept with S and i said yes coz i really did.. the response i got was"every thing happens for a reason dear, i understand" i was so upset that i ended up telling him whatever i wanted . i actually told him that they had no right to insult me, and that they should show some respect for me regardless who i am to them, and if they wanted to take my diginity i way its a shame on them coz i still have it after all that happened between me and them and a hell lot of things i really gave him a lecture. but his last response was i love you. do you think he love me and i should give him a chance? help lplease
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (23 April 2009):
 I have very good manners towards the people who deserve them! People like you don't deserve good manners! You are probably a nice person however, what you did was wrong!
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reader, francy +, writes (23 April 2009):
francy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionXG my love thank you for the comfort and good advice.. wish you all the best in life too... unlike kelly who insulted me rather then helping me... u are so sweet god bless you.. much loveaa but you kelly learn some manners please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): kellyxxx you are so rude
darling
its no point in trying to have a relationship
if you r in love with s
if you are over him(you didn't break up with him
points you may still have had feelings for s while
still with t)
you need to find out if he truly loves you
and if you want to be with him
if the answer is no get over it, there are others
if the answer is yes, start a relationship and good luck
all my best for you.
P.S don't listen to kellyxxx sometimes people just can't she the good in others
i am sure you are nice and kind
good luck for the future
xG
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