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26-29,
anonymous
writes: okay this was a really awkward moment,and im totaly freaked out!! okay me and my best bud "M" went to the movies and it was kool... after the movie was done we both had to take a piss so we went to the mens room, and we were using the urinals-he was right next to me the thing is the whole time i felt as if he was checking me out, and when i was shaking myself off, he grabbed my penis, and then let go because i totally freaked out.....i went home and just totaly left him there- i dont know what to do ??!!!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (6 April 2009):
Yes he's a teenage boy, but seriously, if a guy tried to show me he liked me as more than a friend by grabbing any part of my anatomy then he would have got slapped - HARD.
I think you are right to be freaked out and I'm very glad you didn't punch him or anything as violence is never good.
I think you should just calm down, give him a few days to calm down and let him come and talk to you.
You both need space for a little while to get over the shock, and then find out what was going on from him. Don't spread this around school or tell people what happened because this is the kind of thing that will never be forgotten and you don't want rumours spreading about you OR him.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (6 April 2009):
 The girls here are right(ish), but I think you need to make it clear to him that what he did was not acceptable EVER!
If he were straight he wouldn't just shove his hand up a girls skirt, and if my best mate grabbed me like that he would find himself in the nearest Hospital for a good few weeks, and if a girl did that to me they would certainly hear about how pissed off I was.
What he did is still sexual assault, friend or not and I understand what the ladies are saying, but if I grabbed one of them in that way, I would be arrested and rightly so!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009): Your friend is gay and fancies you. You need to calm down and have a talk with him, tell him you don't see him in that way but you want to stay friends (if you do)
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reader, kissxmexagainx +, writes (6 April 2009):
 your friend is obviously confused about his sexuality. It's ok that you freaked out, anyone else would as well. But since he's your best friend, you should talk to him about it, ask what it was all about, if he likes guys. Don't make hi, feel ashamed of his sexuality, just let him know that you don't feel that way but you're sure there's a guy [if he wants to be with a guy] out thee for him. Let him know tat you'll support him in any way, just as a friend though. hope I can help.
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