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I don't want a BJ. How do I tell her?

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Question - (6 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, *ylan McK writes:

I have a new gf and she wants to give me a blow job but i dont want her to because i think it is to degrading. How do i tell her?

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A male reader, Dylan McK United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2009):

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Dylan McK agony auntOk I will

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009):

Just say that you don't really want one, and say that it was kind of her but you're not comfortable with it, and that you are fine if she doesn't . She probably just feels like she should do it

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A female reader, lisamcdonald15 United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2009):

i dont understand why you find it degrading but i respect your opinion. as far as im aware, women only give BJs to please their partner. she won't be doing this for her own pleasure so it shouldn't upset her if you tell her that you don't want her to do it. explain to her calmly why you feel this way and im sure she'll understand. good luck

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