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*occergirl12
writes:I have this best friend that I've known for my entire life, he's a boy and he's also like my brother. I tell him every little secret of mine. But every time he sleeps over or I sleep over his house he always puts his hand around me. I keep on getting this feelings for him I just can't stop. Every time our families go out for supper his parents and my parents always say that me and him are going to fall in love someday. I just sit there and don't say anything but he's like no. I always start crying because I really love him but he just doesn't know that. Every time he finds out that a girl likes him he asks her out because the girl's hot and he always asks me for advice. I REALLY WANT HIM TO FIND OUT I LOVE HIM BUT I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY AND I'M SCARED ..help me please
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): You could try hinting it to him by.. for example; when he asks you about help with his gf's you can say something like "i can't help you anymore it's too much for me" or something like that. or you could just say you need to talk to him and then tell him how you feel. "I like you and have for a while.. but I'm scared that you don't feel the same way and telling you might ruin our friendship which I don't want" could be one way of saying it..
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): If he keeps pushing you off as a potential girlfriend, this is a huge signal. I feel really bad for you because he touches you and you are attracted to him and you seem to really care, and yet the signals show he's not reciprocating.
If it were me I would briefly mention I have it for him and I have hope we're together, and ask him out. Then if he doesn't take the bait, I would not allow him to tease me with actions that suggest flirting or potential boyfriend/girlfriend set up because your feelings matter and you've got to take care of yourself. Then I would shift my focus onto alternatives and happily accept it.
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