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female
age
30-35,
*hingyme
writes: well i really need affection. i am quite desperate for it and i cant get it from my boyfriend. weve talked about and hes not a cuddly type of guy but i really need affection. for example, if some one just hugs me i want to cry because i feel so much emotion and passion. i need to be touched and loved and the only time we really get affectionate is during sex. what should i do? how can i control my need for affection or how do i get it without wronging my boyfriend of two years whom i love? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009): I don't understand guys who really will not be affectionate aside from sex.
Sex is what he wants more, affection is what you may want more. If you're not happy then it may be time to leave him for somoene else who will be affectionate. Plenty of men out there will.
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reader, ErinPatterson +, writes (6 April 2009):
Talk to him if it bothers you that much. It sounds like he is making you feel "needy" and that is just not cool..Put em on his toes
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