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writes:so this is complicated and there's two parts to this question. I've had this boyfriend for 2 years and I'm in college 2 states away and he's my first love but we broke up because of the distance and he agreed for me to come home and see him this weekend, and yeah there's going to be sex involved, but he seemed very affectionate on the phone when we decided to and he said how much he misses me and stuff. my first question is why is he being so affectionate and does he really only want sex and nothing more? he's a good guy and he wouldn't do anything to hurt me. being with him just feels right and he's breathed new life into me, and i truly think i love him. that all's fine and dandy, but a guy who i'm friends with and who i suspect has liked me for a bit in Washington and i were smoking weed with some other friends(my first time since a bad experience) and he was just so tender to me, nothing physical happened other than me holding on to him while walking, us kind of trying to hold hands, and just laying with him and looking at the ceiling, but he gave me his sweatshirt, and i think i might be slowly falling for him. i feel crazy for thinking that from just a couple days of being high with him, but it just feels right. i think he feels something because he didn't move his hand when our hands touched and at a party earlier this year i wanted some of his beer and he didn't give me any because i was pretty intoxicated, and said the next day that it'd be different if i were available, but i'm one of the bros. my second question is does he really like me or was he just being a good friend and taking care of me when i was intoxicated?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks. so i talked to my boyfriend and he said that it really was all about sex and that he didn't love me in that way anymore. that really hurt. but things with my guy friend are going good and i'm going to ask him out on monday.
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reader, XxDefineMexX +, writes (10 April 2009):
 You need to figure out which one you like more and pick. I think the 2ed guy deifnitly likes you. But so does your old boyfriend. Don't be a slut.
You need to choose before you do something you regret and end up losing both of them.
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