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female
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36-40,
*anpopo
writes:my boyfriend and i have recently broken up. it's been barely over a week and i miss him greatly.first things first, we started dating as soon as we met, no matter how you put it to be honest. it just, was. we have had our fair share of problems, between mis-communications and my insecurities... he says that he loves me and cares for me greatly but that we just didn't build the friendship that we needed to support the relationship part. however, he is active duty military, and is transferring branches and may be leaving march-june and be gone from the state we're in. he says he wants us to build our friendship, and he doesn't intend on dating anyone else at least for a while (he said "a while, a few months at least") and that he knows that we both want to try again sometime in the near future. he says that this is one thing he wants. he does not agree that he's my boyfriend at the moment but does agree that we are dating but not "going steady" if you want to put it that way. so in the end i'm very confused. i'm afraid that in the end he's going to go off and flirt around even though he says one thing to me about it. in the end, i'm not sure if i'm simply setting myself up for hurt or what. i'd be happy to give more details for advice but i'm not sure what to give. any and all help is greatly appreciated.
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