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Help me propose!

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Question - (6 April 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2009)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am about to propose to my Girlfriend and i am scared to death, i have no clue how to ask her? Any ideas? i want it to be romantic.

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A female reader, wonderingcat United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2009):

wonderingcat agony auntDo you remember the first time you went on a date with her? Or the first time you said the L word to her? or the fist song that now is your song? Or the dress that she wore that always melts your heart? Choose any of those most memorable "firsts", then either go to the same place or try to "recreate" the same "set up" or ambiance. Then say something like "Remember the first time we did this?" or "You melt me, but you make me a stronger and better person". Then you go down on your knees, or whisper softly in her ears ... whichever works best. You read her the vows or poem or promises that you have written for her. The last line should be your proposal!

Yes, it should be about her!

Congratulations and I am certain she will say YES!

Cat

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009):

have a romantic picnic late eve on a beach, candles, champagne or wine, big cushions. put her fave music on an MP3 player and take that too. Tell her how much you love her and that you want to be with her...go for a romantic stroll as the sun sets or under the stars, have 'will you marry me' written in the sand or if you're more traditional get down on one knee.

good luck!

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2009):

kellyxxx agony aunt

Don't take the advice of sliding the ring onto her finger by a piece of cotton! If your girlfriend has saw stepmom then she will kill you for copying!

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A female reader, missaangel09 United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2009):

missaangel09 agony auntget some coton tie it to her finger let the ring slide down onto the finger and ask......

WILL YOU MARRY ME

you love her and you dont think there will be anyone that could lover her as much

thats a story to tell the children

hope all goes well and tell me what you did after i love a love story haha x x

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A female reader, PeanutButter United States +, writes (6 April 2009):

PeanutButter agony auntcook her a meal, get down on one knee during dessert, or take her to a fancy resturant and ask her there....does she have a favourite place? You hae to think about the things she likes, tailor make it to her interests...my husband was cuddling me and just said "we should get married" and i said "yes" with no fancy gestures, nothing, because i hate all that stuff, and it was just right. If she loves you, she wont mind how you ask....good luck!!!

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