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writes:I have been seeing a straight women for over 1 year.she worries about what others think.her kids hate me.yet I cannot do enough for her.she just wants to be friends.I want more.I know I should let it be.I miss her.please give me advise for letting go.this experience hurts my heart deeply.have others felt this way.how can I move on with grace?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009): Yes, I think it would be best to walk away with dignity! You can't change a persons sexual preference. She is obviously not a lesbian. She may be slightly bi, but not enough to make a lifestyle change! Added to that is the feelings of her kids.
The odds of making this work are against you. Make a clean break and move on...it's for the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009): The best advice I can give you is to not surround yourself with this woman. You are going to have to take a step back and remove her from your life so that you can go through the greif process, rebuild, and move on. I have been where you are and I know that nothing hurts like being in love with someone who isnt in love with you. Just remember, nothing you say or do will change their mind there so its best to stop torturing yourself and let go. You can certainly do it gracefully! Tell her that you have to let her go because it hurts you too deeply to be around her and not to have her as yours. I am sorry you are hurting like this, I know it sucks! If you need anything or someone to talk to my PM box is always open...
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