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writes:My boyfriend has told me before that one of his fantasies is for me to dress up as a french maid. As we are at different universities we hardly see each other at all any more, so I thought I'd surprise him when I go to visit him next.The thing is, I have no idea how to act once I'm all dressed up and I know I'll suddenly become nervous and feel like I'm not doing it right. What should I do? How am I supposed to act?Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Trinaa  +, writes (10 February 2011):
 I'm stuck in your situation also! I think that we think too hard about it. I don't think you need to be super extravogant and go all out with it. I think to guys, its pretty simple, and a very pleasant supprise. I'm sure he loves you, and if so, he doesn't expect anything out of you. He will appreciate it no matter what you do :)
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (8 February 2011):
 Also, learn a few French phrases! It could matter less what you're actually saying (unless he understands French, in which saying "put the cat next to the pencil", or "my Uncle arrives Saturday" will be confusing and not sexy), it will sound incredibly foxy coming out of your mouth. I'm sure he will go nuts seeing you in a maid outfit, purring French! Maybe get some French music? (I love Paris Combo.) Definitely French wine.
Oh enjoy, sweet! You will have so much fun!!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (7 February 2011):
 You should be dusting around the house. And then you can leave the rest of what will happen up to him. Or just wear the outfit and do what you'd normally do, it'd be kinky anyway. Just make sure the curtains are drawn and things stay private.
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reader, amandab +, writes (7 February 2011):
well maybe to make sure you are comfortable, wear the outfit by yourself, imagine he is watching you and see how you feel, i hope you feel empowered, sexy and libarated. then do it for real, i am sure he will be very happy
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reader, TexasTexas +, writes (7 February 2011):
The only thing sexier than a French maid is a shy French maid ;)I think you should take French wine, French dictionary....and a duster.Kudos for putting in so much effort!
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reader, Odds +, writes (7 February 2011):
 Draw it out as long as you can. Anticipation is as sweet as the real deal. Play the role to the fullest. For instance, cook something, and bend low over the stove - or just put all the ingredients on the bottom shelf of the fridge. Or make a mess and tell him you want to make up for it, and you'll be willing to take care of anything that needs it...
If you're not going to cook, a good backup option would be to draw a warm bath, pour him a glass of whiskey or gin to enjoy in the bath (it's vital to have a really clean bathroom, here), tell him you've done so, then stand outside the bathroom door, out of sight but humming or singing to yourself so he can hear you from in there, letting his imagination do its thing. You can come in a few minutes later to ask if everything is satisfactory.
If neither the kitchen nor the bath are a realistic option, just get into the role. "Maid" is more a submissive one, a good way to draw out his dominant side, but to get full mileage out of the costume, go slow.
Don't worry about looking embarassed - it's cute, he'll enjoy both the blushes and the effort, and embarassment can play into the submissive-maid thing just fine. Just stay in character as long as you can.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (7 February 2011):
 Eyes, I could have used a warning before that one! I almost shot coke all over my keyboard through my nose.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (7 February 2011):
 Three women: one engaged, one married, and one a mistress, are chatting about their relationships and decide to amaze their men....that night all three will wear a leather bodice S&M style, stilettos and mask over their eyes . After a few days they meet again.....The engaged girlfriend said: "The other night, when my boyfriend came back home, he found me in the leather bodice, 4" stilettos and mask. He said, "You are the woman of my life, I love you...then we made love all night long." The mistress stated: "Oh Yes! The other night we met in the office. I was wearing the leather bodice, mega stilettos, mask over my eyes and a raincoat.When I opened the raincoat, he didn't say a word. We just had wild sex all night.
"The married one then said: "The other night I sent the kids to stay at my mothers for the night, I got myself ready, leather bodice, super stilettos and mask over my eyes. My husband came in from work, grabbed the TV remote and a beer, and said, "Hey Batman, what's for dinner."
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (7 February 2011):
 I'm with fi the tree...
Let the feather duster guide you.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (7 February 2011):
I think that you should send him out to the store to pick up stuff to make for dinner. While he's gone, change into the costume. Then start doing some stuff around the house. When he gets home, he'll be taken aback. "Welcome home Mr. X. Please, let me help you with those." Go and help him. "I've got the oven warming up, and I'll start on dinner very soon. Please relax, is there anything I can get for you?"
At this point, I'm going to venture he's going to have a hard time keeping his hands off of you. It's up to you how much you want to tease him. It's always better if you don't break character though. "Mr. X, you're so naughty. What exactly DO you want me to do? I'm happy to service you any way I can."
Above all else, make sure to tease him a little and HAVE FUN! The more fun you have, the more it will show, and the more exciting it will be for him. Good luck!
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (7 February 2011):
 Get a feather duster to go with the outfit, then when you guys are alone, start flicking the duster over things around the room, then start flicking it over him. Feathers on the skin is a very intense sensation, slow it down and kiss him all over as you tickle him with the feathers. Guarenteed that outfit won't stay on for much longer....
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 February 2011):
Here's the plan. Change into the maid's costume when he's not around, and wear a coat over it. Then wait. When he comes in, drop the coat, then sit on the edge of the bed. Then, just tell him that you're his for the night. If that doesn't work, nothing ever will!
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