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female
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26-29,
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writes:A couple of months ago, I started crushing on my senior in our school band. He was the one who taught me how to play my instrument, but when we first knew each other, we didn't talk at all. Back then, he would look at me coldly and ignore me each time I said something. I remember I really hated him to the core when we first knew each other.But a few months ago (4 months to be exact), He had a sudden change in attitude towards me and would randomly glance at me during band practices. It was also around that time when I started crushing on him. I remember thinking "Oh sh**, no this cannot be happening" and stayed in denial for a month or two.While I would have preferred to let myself continue denying and lying to myself, during the school holiday intensive band camp, he was really nice to me.He would smile at me and we would talk. During the barbeque on campfire night, I remember I wasn't really hungry and didn't eat the extra chicken kebabs and meat that they had. My senior noticed that and put a stick of chicken kebab on my plate after stopping everyone in our group from eating it. After that, while we were waiting in the music room for the debrief to start, he let me take some pictures of him and play on his iPhone.When the band camp ended, since then, we have been walking home together (me making the effort to take the further route to be with him). Up until now, we're still walking back together after band practices. While walking, he would ask random questions about my life, my family etc. There was once, while we were walking, I caught him looking at me and smiling a little. When he saw that I was looking, he looked away nonchalantly. From walking together, we started eating dinner (and occasionally, lunch) together as well.Since we're both (obviously) in the same school, and that his classroom is on the first floor, each time I walk past his classroom to go for lunch break and recess, I would always see him waving at me with a smile on his face.There was once he told me that he has a gf but my other friends tell me that from observing us, theyc an tell that he likes me and that maybe the gf thing was just to get me jealous. Even today, during band practice, when a femlae senior came up to us and asked us to play for her, the boh of us replied "What?" at the same time. The people standing around were like "OO~ You guys really have something going on between you two. Why not become gf and bf?" Then, he replied, "No." while I simply followed suit. I really didn't know what to say.I'm confused. Does he like me or not? My friends have asked me to confess but I'm scared. What if he really has a gf and he's just being a nice and caring senior to me? What do you think? Sorry for the really long post =x
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (7 February 2011):
 Relax and give it time. I think he's definitely interested, just let it develop. Good luck.
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