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*ohnnykidds
writes:This may be a mix of me having trust issues and being the jealous boy I am, but my girlfriend and I are very serious about each other. She trusts me, and I "trust her". For some reason, I always find myself sitting here in pitty thinking my girlfriend is cheating on me when she goes out with her friends and stuff. Mainly when she parties, I don't know. I try to just ignore it and mind my own, but I always find myself in the same hole.Sorry if this doesn't make sense, I'm just typing. My question is, how do I learn to trust? We have a great, healthy relationship other than me thinking shes doing something she's most likly not, I still don't know what to do...
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reader, Wheeler +, writes (7 February 2011):
 My question is how does she respond to your questions when you do have them?
If a GF responds usually by dismissing the question as ridiculous, or ultimately not taking any action to help alleviate your fears at least some of the time, that is a red flag.
Point is, some people struggle with this because of things that have happened, or maybe just their own insecurities. Either way though, the GF should at least be willing to make an effort.
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reader, gagirl7854 +, writes (7 February 2011):
 sounds like we are having the same problem. Has she ever done anything to make you think she may cheat? Ever hinted around or tried to make you jealous? Talked about the same guy over and over and about how they are such good friends? these are signs.
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