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writes:i wont to run away i have had enought of life i don't know y i feel like this i have 4 kids and scared i don't know y i am feeling this way is there somethimg wrong with me Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2011): I feel you. I understand how you feeel. i am there...again.I seem to ebb and flow in and out of this feeling.i have not done it because it is too selfish for me....even though i want to badly. i too have 4 children and im a single parent. the thought of just having to worry about myself seems so simple and easy. But you will never be able to run away from yourself. Someone glibbly said take some time and id cry everyday if my mother left. they are not understnading what this feels like.Run away. But make thoes around you support you while you do this...runaway for a day, a weekend, for a week. i did for 21 days to a differnt country for a tour. I explained to my family that i had to go because i was dieing inside...and to get away i could come back a better person and a better mother. and i did. there is no shame in what you are feeling...but rember the children have no choise in this life.. you are their everything even if they dont know that. Please take time to be whole person for yourself and in turn will be able to be a mom who can give more to her children. Talking to someone you can trust and who knows you well really helps too. Good luck.And this phase of your life is not forever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2011): No. You probably just need some time off.
All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy isn't it.
So, take a time off away from your kids and you'd be a happier and stronger mother.
Don't run away, if my mom runs away I'm probably crying everyday for the rest of my life.
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reader, chocoholicforever  +, writes (8 February 2011):
what are you scared of?
are you in an abusive relationship? if so, get yourself and your kids and pets to the nearest women's shelter!
do you have suicidal thoughts? if so, please google for a suicide hotline in your area and call them and talk to them!
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