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writes:hi all im in need of a little help, my hubby says im crazy n that its all in my head but im sick n tired of being out with him n finding him looking at other females, i wouldnt mind if he did when we weren't out together but i find it personally humiliating and degrading on my behalf. I dont have confidence issues n i dont always find these girls more attractive than me neither but im tired of him lying or am i really loosing my mind. Please help me
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reader, Kerizable +, writes (8 February 2011):
Kerizable is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you for your response aunty ellie. However, I'm not interested in silly games and copycatting his actions. And yes, he often turns it around and accuses me, but I'd just like for him to have some respect for me when we're together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2011): do you look at guys? i bet you do.
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reader, auntie.ellie  +, writes (7 February 2011):
 if your boyfriend is trying to tell you that youre crazy for being upset about him looking at other girls that way, then he is the one that is crazy. what you need to do is make him feel the same way he is making you feel. believe me it works. when your out, make sure he notices you checking out other guys, just dont make it too obvious and dont ever make it clear that your doing it just to get back at him. he will realize how you feel and respect that. if he turns everything around and starts accusing u of cheating and other stuff then lose him. any guy who doesnt respect another girl is not a guy worth having. there are nice guys out there believe it or not and they are definately worth looking for.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (7 February 2011):
 People check out other people. Is he staring at them or are they just glances? It's crazy to expect him not to notice others. That's just the way humans are wired. However it's not too much to ask that his primary focus be you when the two of you are out together.
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