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writes:Hi. I'm looking for simple ways to spice up sex with my boyfriend. We have a wonderful sex life, but I'd like to put some extra 'wow' into it as he has been so amazing to me lately when I've been very stressed. We've been together nearly 2 years. I'm not looking for anything particular hardcore. I've thought about chocolate body paint but I'm not sure how that'd work? As many ideas as possible would be lovely please, I really feel like he deserves this. :)
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reader, mb129  +, writes (12 February 2011):
You should run to Victoria's Secret and pick up something new and different to wear. Try jumping him at some random time, have something nice on underneath your regular clothes. When you start show him what's going on underneath but don't let him take off your regular clothes right away. Text him when you are both away and say you need him home right now. Meet him in a bar and pretend to be someone different.
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reader, SweetSmoochy +, writes (8 February 2011):
 Let me just first say "Awwwwwwww :)" the fact that you two care for each other so much is so sweet, and that'll make spicing up sex that much easier.
One old trick that's very fun is wait for him to come home one night wearing some sexy lingerie and doing something inconspicuous. It adds an extra fantasy vibe if the inconspicuous action is something like baking his favorite cookies. give him your sexiest or most adorable face when he catches sight of your outfit and ask him if he likes it. Ta-da! Fun Fun!
If you like the chocolate flavored bodies idea, but don't want the mess of paint, try chocolate body powder (it's every where with Valentine's Day. I got mine at Target!) or chocolate flavored condoms.
A third idea is trying a new position or a place you've never had sex before. If you two are particularly adventurous, try going somewhere outside or even a hidden place in a public area. The danger of getting caught can either be harrowing or add to the excitement of lovemaking.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2011): Ok, no need to make this too elaborate or complex...
Food play can be fun, but be careful not to introduce sugar into your vagina. (Now I understand how my GF ended up w/ so many bladder infections!)... No chocolate in the vagina, no candy canes... no sugar! Be careful if you heat it up, as it can burn you.
You can introduce candle play, (dripping hot wax) on each other, but you'll need to research which kind of candle wax to use (some burns hotter than others! Avoid that!)
If you can find a place to skinny dip (a hot tub?) out doors at night... being naked outdoors is always fun... just be safe.
Some erotic movies could be fun... nothing too hardcore... a little internet research should turn up a few titles.
If you have netflix check out "Satisfaction", it's an Aussie showtime flick, STEAMY!
Some sexy attire, or shaving (if you're not) can be a turn on... a wig can do wonders! By a dildo and do a show for him... all kinds of things... use you imagination and see what happens!
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