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He said he would and he did! I feel very hurt now...

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Question - (7 February 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 February 2011)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years now. Last night he was clearly drunk and he told me he was going to walk to the store to get smokes. I told him I would take him 5 times he said he and his brother were going to walk. He knows beside it being agents the law he has always promised not to drink and drive or drive with someone who has been drinking. Well he got in his truck and drove down the block to the corner by the store so the cops did see him and I feel totally lied to and hurt. He keeps saying I just drove it down to the corner and then I walked the rest of the way. But in my eyes he broke his promise to me of never drinking and driving and lied about walking there . what to I say or do and this point I very hurt and lost.

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A female reader, LittleMissy United Kingdom +, writes (8 February 2011):

I understand fully what you mean. Once you've been lied to, about anything, you can never fully trust that person again right?

You know your boyfriend, and you know whether he's truly sorry or not, and whether he's cabable of lying about other matters. If it was just a moment of stupidness on his part then forgive him, but I hate it when drink is used as an excuse for bad behavior!!

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