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reader, PatientlyWaiting1  +, writes (11 February 2011):
Block her and keep it moving! Forget about your stuff. If it is not priceless or sentimental who really cares. If you can let it go then do that. So, block her calls asap and move on. I would not be surprised if she came running after you.
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reader, Bigmike1 +, writes (11 February 2011):
Bigmike1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHaha Kind of funny well I have not emailed her for like two weeks or tryed to call her I just texed her that night.....Well just last nite she has called me again!?!?
Why because she said she has some of my stuff she wants to ship back to me? Why would you call me if you blocked me I dont get her shit its really pissing me off and Im still blocked from calling her I fill like not even picking up next time she calls for the first time in two yrs!?!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2011): This is not random. She is playing games because she knows you will still call her every other day to see if you are still blocked. She may say she doesn't want to see you, but she abviously likes keeping you on a leash.
Stop calling her.
Stop calling to see if you're blocked or not.
Stop sending emails to her trainer or anyone else she knows and keeping tabs on her!
I don't know how your relationship first started going south, but I would guess the fact that you need to call her and monitor her via people she knows has something to do with it. Generally, woman find this creepy and controlling.
And if she ever thinks you you have outlived your usefulness as a plaything (and she will), she can use the repeated calls and the contact with her trainer to have a restraining order put against you or file harassment charges. You need to stop playing her game.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (8 February 2011):
 Playing games!!!...dump her and move on.
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reader, Bigmike1 +, writes (8 February 2011):
Bigmike1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell the first time it happen was when I came back home from living with her at the end of summer time. She blocked me about a month after I came back. Well then about a month after that she called me up again at 2am in the moring wanting to talk to me? Ok so why did she call me up because she said she could not sleep and was not filling good and wanted to talk to me. So about a week after we talked it almost was like the same again she would call me up on her lunch break and call me and talk to me after work. But the thing is why she blocked me is because She said she had to dig her car out of the snow. Well Im sry it does not take your 2 hrs to dig out your car. So then she did not call me alot after that and then one night I wrote her trainer asking him why he is saying he is missing her on face book and he said it was nothing like that bla bla bla. And he wrote me back saying that she just started dating a older guy ect.. But why would she want to talk to me still so I got tired of it. And now Iam blocked from calling her again but yet just yesterday she unblocked me from calling her I was like ok I was blocked the day before? So I texed her saying "you might want to block my number again". And she said "who is this"? Thats all she said and I did not reply back to her then after 2 hrs. It said that I was blocked again. I think that she just wanted to know if I was still trying to get a hold of her or not because why would she even thank about unblocking me again becuase its obv she still cares about me....?
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (8 February 2011):
 She's obviously playing games with you.
Why don't you ask her what is going on and why is she sometimes blocking you from phoning her? See what she says. If she denies it you can tell her you know for a fact that's what is happening.
I suppose there is no (remote) possibility that she accidently blocked you, is there? Do you, have you, called her late at night when she might have gone to bed? That MIGHT conceivably be more likely than doing it by accident. But you need to talk to her and find out what she's doing.
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reader, kullkat +, writes (8 February 2011):
she knows exactly what she's doing. It seems she is blocking your number b/c I assume being you LDR she must have your number in her phone. The fact that she texted back saying "who is this" is a strong sign. She is attempting to let you know that she no longer has your number in her phone ( as in "deleted it"). She may be finding the LDR unproductive and decided to end it or she's dealing with some other person. Sorry to me so cynical in my response but that's just how one would interpret the situation.
Good luck to you
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2011): Something tells me you are the one who thinks they are in a LDR...If she had EVER blocked you, then I don't think she considers what you two have a "relationship" at all.
Why not take the hint, respect her space, and stop contacting her?
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1 +, writes (8 February 2011):
This girl is your girlfriend? Leave her alone. She seems to be trying to distance herself or something. It is very very childish behavior. Maybe you smother her, give her space. Either way her behavior is unexceptable.
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