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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Im 19 and I have being seeing someone for the last 3 months. He is 26 and has a really good job and is always busy with work. We live really close to each other like a 5min walk. We met over a social network site, although we live close I didnt know him.He used to inbox me for a few weeks till I gave in and give him my number. We arranged to meet up and I liked him. He took me out the next night for a meal and we got on really well. At the time I was in a relationship that was all but over and he knew about this. He just said it would add to the fun. Then after a couple of weeks he was telling me I should finish him and go out with him and let him "treat me like a princess". So after a couple more weeks I did finish my ex.I dont see him that often, like only a couple of times a week and sometimes not even that. I dont ask him if im going to see him, its him who justs texts me on the night or threw the day and says "do you want to see me". We have being going out for meals but lately its just round his place. I do stay over and sometimes we end up sleeping together. I dont go round late its always about 7-8 o clock. He is always really nice and says the right things. He txts me everyday to see how I am and what Im upto. He has being away and he txts me and tells me he misses me and that Im his "georgeous girl".I had a talk to him recently saying i dont see him enough and that i dont feel like i am in a relationship even though he says we are. He has said we are going away this weekend to spend some time togther but he has said this before and it never happens. He is also adding random girls on a social network site from age 16-19 year olds, he has added over 50 in this month. If i was his gf would he be doing this. Is he a player?
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reader, charliesdevil73  +, writes (8 February 2011):
 He's a player. He probably wants to feel the thrill of winning over a girl. Unfortunately, a lot of younger girls are naive when it comes to relationships and older men sometimes take advantage of that. I was played when I was your age, and it hurts more if you let it drag on.
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reader, Snowshoe  +, writes (7 February 2011):
 Yep... He's a player.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2011): Yeah, he's a player. He enjoys hooking up with random girls and you were a sweet prize too, he managed to wrestle you away from your ex.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 February 2011):
Yes, he is. 50 random girls aged 16-19 on his facebook site? You better believe you're being played. Get away from him.
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