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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I know this really great guy who I really like and knows likes me too. But, he just doesn't seem to want to commit. He is slightly older and may be looking at long term options like marriage. Problem is that he seems to give confusing signals all the time. At times, he sounds really caring, affectionate, and really into me, but at others just doesn't seem to care. I only want to start dating for now, it's not like I want to get married right away or something. But, he doesn't even seem to want to that for now either. I think he may need more time and space, but its been quiet long and I'm running out of patience. Should I wait for this guy to ask me out or should I just move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2011): You are either in a committed relationship or you are not. It sounds like you are single so of course you should be dating if your goal is to find that special someone and he doesn't seem to be on the same page with you!
It's completely possible he is looking at long term options and hasn't met the right girl yet. Sadly that happens where people will gladly waste your time knowing its not going anywhere. Its really up to you to spot that and not allow it.
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reader, Puja_thoughts +, writes (7 February 2011):
Hello
For how long have you known this guy ? Since you mention that he is older than you, it is very possible that he already has another relationship if he has not asked you out. It is also possible that he is just hesitant because he doesnot know your feelings.
Gone are the days when you had to wait for the guy to ask you. I think instead of wasting time you should go agead and ask him. Its great if things work out but if not, then atleast you tried. The things one regrets most in life are the unsaid, unexplored options.
So move on if he says his is not interested. You are young and will find a beautiful life ahead with beautiful people.
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