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female
age
36-40,
*olly3
writes:hi everyone i realli need some advice on my relationship with my boyfriend. Im 23year old girl. Recently i have been very jelous and my feelings have been all over the place i have constantly been accusing him of cheating on me with a girl at his college(who i believe likes my bf and wants him) I have turned up at his college unannounced twice and hes been coming out of college with her smiling and joking which gets me so mad because all we seem to do is fight. The fights are mostly to do with my trust issues i understand that but she plays on my mind and whats happening in college , what shes doing and why is she always near my boyfriend...I had a huge bust up with him this week and i went to his college, wen he came out he was with her again and told me he had peoples numbers from college as he wanted to be friends but what he didnt tell me was that he had hers, why did he tell me 3guys numbers he got but forget to mention he got hers? i then shouted at her and said why are you trying to ruin my relationship with my bf, i asked her if he had said anythng about me which she replied no. I found out that was a lie as my bf told me he told her i was jelous and paranoid to which i so angry about, why would he go straight to the girl im most insecure about????I have alot trust issues and now my bf has gave me one last chance to show what i used to be like when we met(which was not jelous, caring and loving) he said i cant accuse him ov cheating. He said we should take a day at a time to work it out and get better but has to much happened? I need advice on what to do, my bf is going back to college tomorro, the first day bk since i argued with this girl and im worried what she will say to him, wether he will just tell her my bisuness again or if he will just ask her to forget it like i have asked him to. Im most worried that he will sit and slag me off and tell her everything about how i am jelous.I have went to the doctor and she prescribed me medicine which im starting tomorro and i am getting a date and time sent out to meet with a councelloer. please give me advice on what to do???? thanks xx
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reader, spnwinchester  +, writes (8 February 2011):
K You sound like you're in dire need of help cause if I were your boyfriend, I would definitely left you quite a while ago. Seriously the way you're acting towards your boyfriend and that girl is COMPLETELY out of line and crazy, you need to get rid of this HUGE jealousy issue of yours by talking to that councilor and start trusting your boyfriend and this girl, all you'll end up alone very quickly.
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