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30-35,
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writes:So I met this guy, I wanted him in my life and eventually I managed to get him in my life and now I don’t want to lose him! As well as being very close friends now, we lead a definite Love-Hate thing. We aren’t both players but we just cant help flirting with other people, we both have a lot of close friends of the opposite sex so we both get pretty jealous, we go through stages where we drive each other absolutely crazy and then we don’t talk for weeks but in the end, we are still close mates and we always end up flirting again. He knows I like him and he admits that he does think of me in a more-than-a-friend sort of way. The reason we aren’t going out I guess is because he doesn’t really have the time for something serious and normally when we get anywhere near going out one of us seems to get bored with the other. There is a bit of competition. He has a lot of girls who like him but they are easy and they flirt with everyone so I don’t think he takes it seriously like he does with me but I am still afraid I’m going to lose him. Lately, we’re closer than ever and he flirts with me a LOT. He’ll squeeze my arse or tickle me until I’m rolling around on the floor. He’ll run his hand along my leg or play with my hair. We say things like “Don’t think about me” and wink at each other and we often say little cheeky things that we know turn each other on. If we are stood together he puts his arm around my waist and we often lean our heads together when we are sat next to each other but I get the feeling he’s trying to get me to react more and now he is making an effort, I am determined not to lose him! So basically I need ways to keep him interested! If you can give me any tips on flirting with him that would be greatly appreciated! And any small things I could say or do would be interesting but just bear in mind I don’t want to come across as easy or desperate because I like to have some respect :P Thanks!
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reader, TexasTexas  +, writes (7 February 2011):
Men who are interested in you DO NOT flirt with others in front of you. He is trying to wean you into having sex with him. He is letting you know that you aren't that special but that he wants sex.
He doesn't take you seriously and I don't read that you find him anything except cute. Not that that's a bad thing ;)
When you start husband-hunting, your priorities will shift.
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