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26-29,
*uvDrunk
writes:So my best guy friend(i'll call him J) who I love like a brother is in a relationship with a girl(i'll call her X) whose controling and has trust issues. At a basketball game X went through his gym bag to get his cell, which was wrapped in his boxers, so she could go through his texts. He was pissed but won't break it off. Another time one of my other girlfriends drove him home(because he cant drive yet) and X drove by his house just to make sure he was home and not with my friend.She also flirts with any guy with a pulse and has texted one of my other guy friends things like "Yes i don't think me and J will last much longer and i think your cute:)" and leads him on like she doesn't care about J at all. I've personally seen her txt to my guy friend and it pisses me off.It really makes me worry about him because his personality has changed and he doesn't hang with me anymore and we aren't as close as we used to be...and i know he deserves better because he is so nice.I dont wanna make J mad and tell him that he needs to break up with her before it gets worse but something needs to be done, i'm losing my best friend :(I need advice...Thanks!
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (7 February 2011):
Don't go right to the point. He could get mad at you. You have to talk with him and try to find out what he thinks about his relationship. And then you may find out some material to work with. But you need he to tell you something he doesn't like about her, in the first place.
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