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My friend told me all men are really gay!

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Question - (27 February 2011) 17 Answers - (Newest, 26 May 2011)
A female Ireland age 36-40, *ischa1987 writes:

Are all men GAY???

A guy who once had sex with another guy said to me that all men are gay, and that they just wont admit it, that they don't actually want women they just want to get off or have babies? He said stuff like they think the vagina is the most disgusting thing they ever seen and that they are not physically attracted to women it just out of habit and nature....and it really upset me because now when I really like a guy I am thinking he isn't really into me and that at any time he can decide to want to have sex with a man and that makes me feel unattractive and that I am not really wanted and that he said it was true they all think that way and all want to have sex with another man at least once....

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2011):

@the_phoenic-

Many men do...

OP-Your gay friend is either trying to mislead you or is delusional.

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A female reader, angelDlite United Kingdom +, writes (28 February 2011):

angelDlite agony aunthi

O M G don't listen to your gay friend! this sounds like a bit of 'wishful thinking' on his part. its a load of nonsense that!

xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2011):

Oh carry grant. You are such a card. I am out here waiting in line with the gals waiting to see you. Step back and to the left girls he is mine. I saw him first.

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A male reader, ivanichiaynus United Kingdom +, writes (27 February 2011):

 ivanichiaynus agony auntWhat a load of pony!

For non-Londoners, please google "Pony" in the rhyming slang section.

Ivan.

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A male reader, the_phoenic United Kingdom +, writes (27 February 2011):

Your friend must have been drunk

Most of men would give there lives for a vagina :-)

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (27 February 2011):

Jmtmj agony auntThis guy is spinning bull-crap at a rumplestiltskin level.

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A female reader, mischa1987 Ireland +, writes (27 February 2011):

mischa1987 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

mischa1987 agony auntThanks you lot this has really helped I not insecure was just upset about the things he was saying x x x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2011):

deff NOT true!! most guys i know dont mind gay guys but if a they came near them or tryed anything they would flip out BIG time, & if guys cant stand the sight of the vagina why cant i keep my bf's face away from it? ur buddy thinks everyone's gay just because he is... its obvious he has issues, dont take everything any idiot tells u personally! in one ear out the other forget it, he has issues he needs to get help for, or at least think before he talks because he sounds really dumb...

xxxx

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (27 February 2011):

This guy must have been smoking something. There's a lot of obvious evidence that men aren't all gay!

He was clearly gay himself, but unable to accept it.

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (27 February 2011):

LazyGuy agony auntLoad of bull, someone read about ancient Sparta and got confused about nature vs nurture.

Just because he is that messed up doesn't mean everyone else is. Although I must admit I am no great fan of looking at the vagina. Such a hassle with the lights and that clam thing and her shrieking because you forgot to warm it before taking it out of the fridge.

Now the vulva... Mmmmm. vulva...

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A male reader, C. Grant Canada +, writes (27 February 2011):

C. Grant agony auntCindyCares is right. You were being fed a line.

Ya, some guys are in to guys. Most guys are in to girls. So most guys, getting a glimpse of a naked girl, are very, very happy about it. And want more. The only thing you need to worry about is getting a good guy who will stick with you.

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A female reader, No watered down advice here! United States +, writes (27 February 2011):

No watered down advice here! agony auntWOW! I've heard of some very strange things in my life, this is by far the strangest! If all men are gay, I sure can't tell it! ijs! Don't allow your friend to take up any more space in your head,that's an really crazy accusation. SMH!

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A female reader, DanceInTheDark Canada +, writes (27 February 2011):

DanceInTheDark agony auntI think your friend is just saying that to feel normal.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2011):

Your friend ,who obviously is gay, is talking a load of rubbish! Most men are attracted to women and find the female body very exciting! Thats how it works, if most men were gay the human race would die out!

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (27 February 2011):

CindyCares agony aunt I think your friend is projecting his own repressed desires and feelings onto other men :)....

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2011):

I don't see why men would think a vagina is more disgusting than an anus...

What that guy said is really mysoginistic. He probably had bad experiences with women and is frustrated about them. Pretty sad for him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2011):

Very untrue i am a guy and i have never thought of having sex with another man and believe me and many other men like the look of vagina.

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