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writes: I found out a few weeks ago that I am 12 weeks pregnant. Me and my partner are very happy, we have been together 1 1/2 years, I Know that isn't a long time but we love each other. We want to keep this baby because with his job and me working part time I think everything will work out fine.I am scared to tell my parents because they disapproved of this relationship from the start, but my partner has vowed to stick by me and will support me. He has been amazing so far and I think he will make a exellent father but my question is;Should I tell my college teachers about my pregnancy yet? When do you think will be the safest time to tell my parents? When do you think the safest time to tell my friends about the pregnancy?please help Reply to this Question
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (28 February 2011):
 Your parents should be told immediately. Set a day and have your boyfriend with you when you tell them. Never assume you can handle things on your own with your boyfriend, you will need help, you will need guidance. If your parents reject you, let them but give them a chance to tell that to your face first so you KNOW. Then tell your college teachers about it. Good luck
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (27 February 2011):
 Your parents need to be told as soon as possible!!! Then you can choose when to tell everyone else, bear in mind you may start showing very quickly, so don't leave it too long!
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reader, StarryEyes101 +, writes (27 February 2011):
 Okay you're very young. Same age as me when i got pregnant. Scariest thing in the world right? But if it's what you want and it makes you happy go for it. You might be surprised at your parents reaction. You're still their daughter and now you're with child. They should feel very proud of you. This news might make you all get a lot closer. And if it doesn't you still got your boyfriend. And you still got your friends. And these days you can get a lot of help when needed. Tell your parents first. In case they hear from someone else. Good luck x
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