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I just want to know if you can or not....

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Question - (27 February 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 February 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am a virgin but my boyfriend has been fingering me a few times. I was wandering if there is any way I can make my vagina hole smaller again???

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A male reader, Moonknight United Kingdom +, writes (28 February 2011):

Moonknight agony auntSorry to say Libra1963 but you are incorrect, untill you've lost your virginity or have had something similar to a penis size inserted in you, your vagina will not recline to it's normal size, because your haven't been stretched to a "normal" point where your vagina is no longer being stretched.

Once you've hit this point, this will become your nominal shape/size and your vagina will always recline back to that size.

Untill you've stretched your vaginal muscle and tissue you will not become any smaller, like you were before being fingered.

When you become aroused the size of your vagina doesn't change, it only becomes more loose and more accepting of things being inserted inside. However after a lengthy sex session your vagina takes longer to reacts and you may appear bigger, untill you've react to your nominal size, but not before you've been stretched to this nominal size.

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A female reader, Libra1963  +, writes (27 February 2011):

Libra1963 agony auntWhat your boyfriend is doing will not increase the size. The muscles stretch and then recline. As long as he has not gone too deep, you should still have your virginity intact.When aroused everything feels bigger.

Do not allow your boyfriend to do anything that you do not want to do unless you are ready and ensure you use protection.

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A female reader, GeeGee255 United States +, writes (27 February 2011):

GeeGee255 agony auntIt may loosen up a bit while you're fooling around with your boyfriend, but should return to shape almost immediately right after. Unless you have seen blood and suspect that he may have broken your hymen.

Why exactly are you concerned about this anyway? Its not like anyone can tell that you let your boyfriend touch you. Not even a doctor.

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