A
female
age
41-50,
*esleyjane
writes:its been 5years since the day my partner promised me his love and loyaltys, were still together today and we have two beutifull children together but his loyalty to me left our lifes about a year ago when he choose to secretly to seek atention from other women using internet. once he had someone lined up he choose to leave us n live on with her. he left 4days b4 xmas2009 and we reunited as a family again6mths after and been together since. im not convinced that i can ever trust him and his personality is diferent from the one i loved so i am convinced i fell for the wrong man and i want to move on from him n the life we have but he wont listen to me and icant seem to find the strenth to make him understand cos when i do say anything he gets angry n refuses to take me seriouse! what would you do if this was you?
View related questions:
move on Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, firstlovelastlove  +, writes (27 February 2011):
 I am male. This happened to me after a 4 year relationship. Things got so bad I didn't believe anything she said any more. "what would you do if this was you? " I had to finally move in order to cut off all contact. If I were you I would cut off all contact and move if you have to. I wish you all the best!
A
reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2011): you visit a divorce lawyer and get the lawyer to serve him with the divorce papers. That's if you seriously do want to end this relationship. Don't tell him what you intend to do. Instead Just DO it.
From the way you presented your case even i was not convinced that you wanted to end the relationship.
What exactly are you expecting him to do? Pack up all your belongings, tie them with pink ribbons and carry you bodily into a golden carriage to your next castle?
If you are serious about what you want then you initiate action to make it happen.
You don't just keep repeating what you intend to do to the one person who does not want to listen, namely your uninterested husband.
...............................
|
