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writes: I met this guy at a party back in October,he made it clear he fancied me,but i was in a relationship at the time so didn't take it further.I did like him though.6 wks ago i split up from my boyfriend,and have recently started texting this other guy.I was honest about the split from my ex,and we said we would take it slow.We have been texting on and off for about two weeks and we have even been out for coffee.He was in a relationship 2yrs ago and that ended badly and hasn't been on a date since.He texted me the other night saying he wanted to kiss me,i replied that so did i.He lives two mins from me and said why dont you pop over to mine but stressed it was just going to be a kiss nothing else.He then said that he was in bed now and it was late.10.30.I said fine and left it at that.I haven't heard from him since.That was 5 days ago.I'm not sure what is going on.I have text him since that time just to say hi,but heard nothing back.Can anyone shed any light onto this as i am totally flumoxed??x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2011): He's not looking for a relationship, just sex. It's probably why he hit on you while you had a boyfriend..hoping to get sex and not get pressured about more. Blow him off or you'll wind up hurt and disappointed.
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reader, the_phoenic +, writes (27 February 2011):
I think his past experience witch seems very very bad
Is still haunting him and he is afraid to approach any lady even the one whom he really likes
Give him some time to overpass his anxiety
And make him feel safe and comfortable when he approaches again
Good Luck
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