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writes:how can you tell if a guy likes you solely through phone conversations and chats . . ? yeah .. its a long distance .. but forget about whether it will work our or not .. I just wanna know if he likes me or not .. and he is not a new acquaintance .. I have known him since childhood .. now I started liking him and wanna know if he also feels the same way .. ( if it helps .. we both are Taurus .. )pls help .. really important ..Additional Detailshe calls me regularly .. definitely once in 2-3 days .. but he calls whenever he can .. he is single .. likes me a lot .. but when I told him I have feelings for him, he said he only likes me as a friend .. since we know each other for longtime we never had a romantic conversation so far ..also he is 5 yrs elder to me ..
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reader, mysteriousgirl +, writes (28 February 2011):
mysteriousgirl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmy boy friend of four years broke up wid me end of december ..
jus two days after I met this guy ..
actually when this friend came down to my town, we met and in a conversation I told him im committed. then he kinda insisted on meeting my now ex .. and we all met .. but he had to leave the very same night.
however two days later my boyfriend broke up with me for no reason. and I suspect that the reason might be this friend. :(
and his parents wouldnt have any problem with me in particular. I know them since childhood. and his mom and my dad are friends since their college and are now working together for almost 30 yrs .. so I think families will not have any problem .. however, im not sure if his parents have a problem with Love marriage ..
I told him that I started having feelings for him last week. and he told me he likes me only likes me like a lil girl and he didnt wanna discuss it any further!
he asked me from when I started feeling this way and hw I could feel that way when I was treating him like a brother all these years ...
i told him that we are related by blood nor are we relatives. it is only cos of the way we were brought up and the age difference we used to treat each other like brother and sister. but now I dont see a reason as to why that should stop me from having feelings for you!
he said I understand ur point but my answer remains the same. i like u , respect u and adore U and that will remain the same forever. if u need anything from me ill always be there to help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2011): He's already told you he only likes you as a friend. He might well talk to other friends for more than a few mins.
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reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (27 February 2011):
If he calls you allot he most probably has something for you
And may be he told you that he likes you as a friend because he is still afraid of ant commitment
We need more details like the rescuer suggested
Good Luck
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reader, mysteriousgirl +, writes (27 February 2011):
mysteriousgirl is verified as being by the original poster of the question@Rescuer: Im in India and He in USA .. me 22 him 27
yeah the calls started recently when he came back to India and went .. earlier we used to chat once in a while .. but very rare ..
he stays alone.. so he calls all his frnds .. but talk to them only for few mins .. but with me its always an hour ..
he cares for me and adore me but I donno if its like a friend/ brother or something more ..
we never had a romantic conversation .. N donno hw to start it also .. dont wanna make think awkward .. and I think it ll be better if he starts it ..
pls help .. guess Im totally into him .. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2011): He's told you he only likes you as a friend.
There could be man reasons for calling. Loneliness etc...
What do you talk about?
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