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writes:I have been infatuated with this guy for about 6 months now.. i asked him out twice in the time i liked him, and even though i knew it was wrong, i used to sext (sex text) him, but recently, i moved on, though i still love him. I now fancy another guy, and he asks me to sext him every night, but, dont get me wrong, we do talk about other stuff.. he does say he wants to get to know me better.. but my mate stole my phone yesterday, and asked him out (as me) he completely ignored the text, and started talking about other things. Recently, this guy wanted me to sext him, but the first guy text me for the first time in months, and also asked me to sext him. I said i couldnt decide and now the first guy isnt talking to me. The second guy continues to talk to me, about everything, but also nags me to sext him every night... my question is do you think i made the right descision, what i can do to get the first guy to talk to me, and do you think the second guy genuinely wants to talk to me, or is just using me.. thanks.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (28 February 2011):
 What did the first guy say when you asked him out twice? If he shot you down twice then why do you want to still talk to him? It's evident that all he wants to do is use you for sexting.
How old are these guys by the way?
Both are interested in you sexting them..the second may want to get to know you to see how things go. Honestly, if you want to make sure he likes you for you and not just sexting then don't sext him at all. Seriously. Then you will get your answer.
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reader, StarryEyes101 +, writes (27 February 2011):
 To be quite honest. I think they are both just wanting the quick thrill of a sext. Don't lower yourself. When they ask tell them you're not in the mood, and see which one continues to text. But i think you're better off finding a guy that just wants a warm txt and not a sext
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reader, xxblueangelxxx +, writes (27 February 2011):
 I'm sorry to say it sounds like they're only interested in one thing...I would recommend saying no to the sexting sometime and seeing what happens. Once you take out that you'll know what they're actually interested in. Also, if you're sending pictures, be careful, you don't want them to be forwarded or shared, they can cause terrible consequences.
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