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writes: I'm going to try and cut this very long story short. I met up with a guy who i hadn't seen for a long time. We never really spoke at school but got back in touch over Facebook and started chatting on there.A few months later we met up and it was nice. At the end of the night i went home and so did he. He text me as i was walking home saying i was welcome to come back to his for some company. I turned him down as we'd only just met really. I guess that should have been a huge RED FLAG but i liked him that much that i didn't see it at the time.A few weeks later we met up again and this time ended up sleeping together. It was great and in the morning as i left he text me saying what a great time he'd had etc...A week after that he moved to another town for work so now we were a good few hours apart. When he was in town we'd meet up and usually end up sleeping together. We'd text and talk online and i stupidly ended up falling for him.A few months later he started becoming very distant, at first i thought he was just busy so i let it go. Then he ignored me completely for a few weeks so i called him and asked if i'd done something wrong. Turns out he'd gotten a new girlfriend and had been with her a few weeks. I asked him why he hadn't bothered to tell me and he said he wanted to tell me in person. I was devastated.He asked if we could remain friends and in the end i gave in and agreed to it.That was a year ago and we still talk online. A few months ago we ended up sleeping together again. It was wrong but it happened.He basically said that he wanted to sleep with me again a few days ago when we were online. I just laughed it off because i didn't know what to say. Tonight i text him saying that me coming to visit him wouldn't be a good idea and i couldn't make that same mistake again. I told him i wanted him but at the same time i knew it was wrong.He didn't reply to the message but a few days later on facebook he said "you're 100% right about not coming to see me because we both know what will happen and we'd both get in trouble" He asked if we can still meet when he's back in town though.I'm just tired of thinking about him. I'm tired of feeling like i can't say no to him and tell him to get lost. I want to forget him but at the same time it feels impossible.How do i let go and move on?
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reader, lakers_lover09  +, writes (28 February 2011):
Put your own heart first. It's human nature to be fond of someone that you wanna sacrafice your heart.for..don't. Heal and it will pay off. Think about it, he is hap ok and you are hurt. Does that make sense? Lol be selfish this time and care about you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2011): Maybe you not giving good chance for this"friend" okay? So. Then, and. Why to not be ,like, okay. I give you a risk bcoz u I cant forget an I was a ass so im all sorry for that so then lets try again bcoz life is short. Okay?
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