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writes:Okay, so there's this boy, I always talk about him to friends and it seems there taking note of his name and adding him on Facebook. They know that I really like him as a boyfriend, but they're talking to him all the time, and because of this I feel like he's pushing me out, like he thinks that my friends are more important that me. But I don't know what to do about this, whether to talk to him about this or not?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (28 February 2011):
 First off have you ever talked to this boy?
The one you should have a word with is your friends, all your crush is doing is harmlessly talking to your friends. Doesn't mean he likes them in a serious type of way. The boy can talk to whomever he pleases.
If you think your friends are chatting him up entirely too much, then you need to tell them to back off a bit. That you are going to go for this boy on your own, without their help.
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reader, katiebudge +, writes (27 February 2011):
 Hi there,Well it can't hurt to talk to him about it. This is obviously distressing you and making you feel negative feelings which is never good, especially from someone you have strong feelings for. Maybe stop talking about him to your friends, I'm not sure what it is with girls but they like to flirt and get involved with other people's boyfriends, must be jealousy but whatever it is they shouldnt need to talk to him. Hopefully they're true friends and not doing anything to ruin your relationship, but still he should be concentrating on you. If he becomes defensive and angry when you bring it up clearly he isn't going to stop talking to them and doesn't see a problem, but you do and that isn't going to change so maybe it will be best to go separate ways. But if he understands then fantastic! Either way you need to speak to him :) Hope this helpskatiebudget :D
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