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*illybabyx
writes:well ive been meeting a lad who lives with his ex girlfriend, i have asked other questions relating to this...if you would like to have a look? his ex girlfriend only lives there because she has nowhere to live till she gets herself sorted. they sleep in seperate beds, shes happy with the split and he said there better as mates.he was texting me while he was still with her, and meeting up!we both box in the same gym together and it is very clear we do like eachother, weve kissed,cuddled,got close, nothing more...he texts me 24/7 and we meet up regularly and go out because he lives close.i sent him a text basically asking him, is he trying to use me and he replied"make your own mind up about me babe, but i say what i mean, and do what i mean, we both like eachother, enjoy eachothers company, have fun ect, i dont want you just for sex, i want much more then that" and he sayswhen he kisses me, he feels something, so i asked him what he felt and he replied :i feel asif i could love you someday"what does this text mean?i also know he texts a couple of girls, i dont know if he meets up with them or not though?what is your opinion on this situation i am in? do you think this sounds genuine?! he says im a lovely down to earth girl ectect, im different then other girls he's met....he said after he splt up from his gf : he needs to sort his shit out before he gets with anybody.? im confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2011): When you say he "texts a couple of girls", what do you mean by that? Texts them like he texts you?I don't want to put a downer on your situation but those things he said sound like chat up lines that he may well use on other girls. I'm not saying he is, but it's a possibility.Him living with his ex girlfriend is also a little off and you say he was texting you when they were still in a relationship? If he was texting and meeting up with you when he was still with her i would be wary because he sounds like the dreaded "player" type.You can't tell much from a text message because people can say anything and it usually doesn't mean what you think it does. The only way to know for sure is to talk to him in person.
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (27 February 2011):
 Unless he is saying the same thing to 3 other girls at the same time, I would trust him until he gives you a reason not to. Just take it slow and keep your eyes open.
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