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writes:I like this guy and i was sure he liked me back... until he met my sister! We are complete opposite she is skinny and beautiful and i'm like the ugly duckling next to her. I had a birthday party and it was a very special to me because he was going to be there. I had told my sister about him but she has never actually seen him. At the party i pointed him out to her. I was having fun with my friend when i notice from the corner of my eye they were talking! It was a pool party and everyone was outside except for them... They were inside all by themselves. It was obvious that she was flirting! She was sitting on him and touching his arms right in front of me. When the party was over he gave her a kiss on the cheek and gave me a simple hug.I feel so hurt and betrayed by my own sister. Am i over reacting? is it just me? Please help
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 February 2011):
I'm afraid you've not overreacting. You had a lousy guy, and you have a very jealous sister. I echo the post below, which is to say when you like a guy from now one, don't tell her and don't introduce a man to her until you're sure he's into you. This is the kind of family member that needs to be kept at a distance.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (27 February 2011):
 you're not over reacting- if he really liked you though he would not have been so quick to fancy your sister. maybe he was just being friendly.
if she knew you liked him then that was a mean spirited thing of her to do. unfortunately when it comes to men some women cannot be trusted and at least you found this out while you are young.
she could have gone for anyone else but she did this to assert her dominance. i advise that in future you dont tell her about anyone that you fancy as she cannot be trusted.
some people always want what others have- its called dog in the manger syndrome...
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