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I'm straight...is this normal?

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Question - (27 February 2011) 10 Answers - (Newest, 19 March 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am 23 female and straight. But i'm only turned on by lesbian porn, is this normal???

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A male reader, PeterNorth Australia +, writes (19 March 2011):

Yeah totally normal. All that matters is that you enjoy watching it and enjoy masterbating over it. Don't worry about what someone else thinks cos you like lesbian porn. Enjoy life and have fun with it

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A female reader, Glastogirl2010 United Kingdom +, writes (2 March 2011):

Yes - it's perfectly natural. Nothing to worry about.

~Glastogirl2010

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2011):

Very normal, women touch more the way they would want to be touched. It is very sensual, unlike mainstream girl/boy porn.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (28 February 2011):

TasteofIndia agony auntCompletely normal!! 100%.

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A male reader, Imboredsoillhelppeople United States +, writes (28 February 2011):

It is normal for some girls. You are ignoring the fact that it is lesbian porn and paying mor attention to a girl being fingered or licked or whatever they where doing. It is normal (most guys get turned on by gay but they won't admit it, and most girls by lesbian but won't admit it either)

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A female reader, peace143 United States +, writes (28 February 2011):

soooo true what libra said. i love looking at women. we are beautiful creatures. try one out : ) im straight too.

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A female reader, Eilish United Kingdom +, writes (28 February 2011):

Eilish agony auntThis is completely normal. Quite a few straight girls watch lesbian porn. It's nothing to be worried about. It's mainly just about lust.xxx

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A male reader, Imboredsoillhelppeople United States +, writes (28 February 2011):

It is normal for some girls, you are ignoring the fact that it is lesbian an paying mor attention to a girl being fingered or licked or whatever they where doing. It is normal (most guys get turned on by gay but they won't edmit it, and most girls by lesbian but won't edit it ether)

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A male reader, sevenseals United States +, writes (28 February 2011):

sevenseals agony auntSexuality is a very strange thing, and nothing illustrates that better than healthy* fetishes.

While "preferences" (as in, what gender you are attracted to the most) are set in stone, sexual interest can actually vary a great deal. The reason a fetish is a good example of this is because you're actually aroused by it. Some gay women love to watch male-female porn and male-male porn, and some straight women (like yourself) love to watch female-female porn and male-female porn (the type directed at men).

This is very common, and it's shared by almost anyone, gay, straight or bi-sexual. Sexuality is no longer considered as straight-forward as once perceived, and that's because too many variances occur in sexual attraction. Again, your preferences are the ones that you will usually follow. Some people will always follow them and never seek out any other gender they may be interested in. That's okay. But so is experimenting, as it's actually quite natural.

But, just being aroused by lesbian porn and not actual women in real life is also natural, because it's a varying degree of your complex sexual build. Totally normal and nothing to feel shameful about.

* I emphasize "healthy" because, as we all know, fetishes also have the possibility of causing psychological distress for those who are deeply troubled by them, to begin with.

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A female reader, Libra1963  +, writes (27 February 2011):

Libra1963 agony auntI think all women are turned on my beautiful women and fantasize about what they see. It is normal. Maybe its something you may want to try. You only live once.

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