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36-40,
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writes:My neighbour lady(36) is my relative and has 2 childrens. Her husband is abroad. She has some problems with her husband. She shares every matters with me and warned me to don't tell anyone. Every times she will show her cleavage to me by leaning in front of me. i don't know it is accidentally or not. She always shows her legs to me. Some times while conversation she will make sounds by pulling the strips of her bra and panties over the dress by looking into my eyes. She touches me accidentally. Till now i didn't know what is in her mind. Her character is nice and every body likes her. Sometimes i will say comments about her body and she enjoys it. How can i show her that i am interested in her. Is She is Flirting with me? She is so beautiful. Her eye contact is also strong and deep. Plz answer briefly.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2011): She's married. End of story.
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reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (27 February 2011):
This women is flirting with you and she likes what you are doing to her
And maybe wants more
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reader, Kilcardy  +, writes (27 February 2011):
She may be flirting with you, but you are flirting with disaster. If you don't want this to someday come down on your horny little head like a sledgehammer, drop this infatuation and turn your gaze toward single girls who aren't related to you.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (27 February 2011):
 Don't show her your interest- she is married, older than you and a relative of yours on top of all !
If you have misinterpreted her behaviour ( as I think you did, to me it just sounds like she is confiding personal problems to a trusted friend and relative - and wearing lingerie which is one size less than she needs ) and make a move on her, it will be awful, you'll totally look like a perv and a creep and you'll make a fool of yourself.
But if she is flirting- don't play along, be the better person, maybe she is having a moment of vulnerability because of the problems in her marriage, don't take advantage of that. Besides, can you imagine all the complications if somebody finds out ?.... It's really not worth the risk. Turn your attention to single girls !
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reader, Blonde68 +, writes (27 February 2011):
"How do I show this married lady that I am interested in her?" YOU DON'T is my answer!!
Why I hear you ask... because she is married, has children and is a relative and you could question the age gap too.
Seriously, stay well away, you will regret it in the end. Perhaps she doesnt even see you in the way that you see her... you are young and no doubt sexually aroused by seeing her leaning forward showing her cleavage, alterating her bra strap etc, but to her, that could be all it is. If it isn't and she is genuinely flirting, I suggest you be the bigger person here, open your eyes and fast forward your mind and think of all the problems that will lie ahead if you get found out.
You will have one angry husband to deal with for starters, then your parents and relatives... for what a woman you find a turn on... well there are plenty of girls out there that I am sure will give you that same feeling but won't have all the baggage that comes with it.
Please wake up and smell the coffee!
Good luck!!
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