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writes:Well, I gave my first handjob after wracking my brain for two weeks about doing it.My boyfriend and I were together a month and a half last year in September/October. He broke up with me, and we got back together in December and are still together now. But we had never done anything sexually except for me being fingered once or twice. And I finally gave him a handjob.I was shaking at first because I was so nervous. It took a minute or two to realise what I was supposed to do :')But after it was quite funny because he stopped me, sat up and went 'well, this is an awkward moment' looking down at his penis and asked where the bathroom was and went in there. I'm not too sure what that meant like.And then he came back and went 'Are you sure that was your first time?' and was like 'Yeah I liked it'. But I'm not sure if he was just saying that to be nice.What are your opinions?I'd also never seen a penis in real life before then, so when I glanced down at it before I started I was completely freaking out on the inside, but tried to cover it up and stop shaking so much, ahhhh.
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reader, lucy1993 +, writes (28 February 2011):
hey a guys cock is very sensitive and when he went to the bathroom i am assumin he cummed . wow you must of been good lol. u should not be nervous as you will be getting alot of more action involving sex and his penis so you will begin to love giving blowjobs and having sex. i love sex especially with a big thick penis :P xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2011): I think you're taking this way too seriously, you're working yourself up into a frenzy of anxiety. You talk about never having seen a penis in real life, as if you're talking about going on some exotic expedition. Just relax, chill out.I don't know if his reaction is good or bad beacuse it depends on whether it is out of character for him or not, and only you can tell cos none of us knows him personally. It could be neither, it could be neutral, a non-event. It may not mean a thing to your relationship one way or the other. Just stop worrying. You'll get better with it over time.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (28 February 2011):
 You made him feel good. There really isn't a lot of technique for a hand job although some guys would prefer finishing it themselves. Feeling shy for a penis is totally acceptable since you are supposed to revere the strength of his manhood. It's better than having a girl saying to him, "it's quite small." Ouch!
I remember the first time I touched a penis. It was a wonderful feeling. For the thousandth time doing it, I still try to handle it like it's the first time.
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reader, Inutashy  +, writes (28 February 2011):
 Lol the first time I gave my bf one was kinda the same. He ended up stopping me and sitting up and right as he was about to run into the bathroom his bro went in hahaha. He had to hold it in until his bro was done. Guys have kinda weird reactions. I found out later he hadn't wanted to ejaculate on my hand. I think your all good, especially if he asks or another;) also once you get used to it and no what he likes, you get good at it really fast.
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