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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello :) Ok, well a guy i know, who but what people have told me has a bit of a reputation, has been sending innapropriate texts to me and a few other people, sexual ones. He has a gf and from seeing photos of him and her, and her family etc... you'd never guess he was doing these things behind her back. It seems like he's two different people, like when he's around her he's the "loyal bf" but when he's not he's acting like a creep. Is the loyal bf thing an act to keep her with him so he can mess around on the side? He called me a few months ago in the early hours of the morning, he doesn't live in the same town so comes to visit friends where i live every so often, i never answered the phone, then the next day i found he'd been asking another female i know if he could go back to her place. So, i guess my question is: is he two different people? Like one person round his gf and her family then when she's not there he's the "real" him?
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reader, romany  +, writes (20 September 2010):
 He is more likely putting the act on for his girlfriend, and the real him is the philandering knob jockey that calls you and others looking for some extra cream on his cracker!!!
Unfortuntely he isn't a rarity, you'll meet lots more like him on your journey through life, steer clear, and learn from it.
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reader, xanthic  +, writes (20 September 2010):
 Yes, it's an act. He's pretending to be loyal around his girlfriend just so she doesn't get suspicious. If he really cared about her as much as he pretends to, he wouldn't be messing around with other girls behind her back.
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (20 September 2010):
 If the "real" him is a dirty scumbag... then yes.
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