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writes:my husband and i have sex all the time. i have never turned him down and i am willing to explore all kinds of dif. things.. i am very in shape take real good care of my appearance. he likes a tanned toned body long hair i have all that ... the problem is when we are out together he stares at other women i mean stares hard embarrasing hard... i know with his ex wife he cheated on her alot and she too is a hard body very nice to look at has great career but he always cheated on her... a mutual friend of ours came over last weekend and informed me her and him had sex in the beginning of our relationship three and half years ago but she didnt know about me!!!she hand i have been friends for 3 years now i have no idea why she thought it needed to come out now..my husband being the way he is i decided maybe if i brought women to our bed spice things up a little i could keep him from going be hind my back and cheating.. but the way he acts around other women or when he sees other women he acts like a dog in heat we can be talking and bam he just shuts right down and gauks. i just dont get it im good in bed its crazy good and wild has been since we started having sex.. could he have a cheating addiction ?? i just dont understand!!!! and yes he is crazy about me and does everything for me. i honestly believe he loves me but wtf
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2010): I'm with CaringGuy and TimmD, they pretty much said it all. If you look at Tiger Wood's ex-wife...you would wonder why did he cheat, he had it all and it sounds like so does your husband. Like you said "he likes a tanned toned body long hair i have all that, im good in bed its crazy good and wild." Basically, the answer to your questions is what CaringGuy said "you've just married a selfish, arrogant pig."And I agree, there is no cheating addiction, please don't make excuses for his actions.
You really need to ditch this guy. Don't let him play you like that, you sound like an attractive women...find someone that values and appreciates you. Leave the pig!
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reader, TimmD +, writes (20 September 2010):
 There's no other way about it, CaringGuy is right. There is no cheating addiction, it's a character flaw. He wants many different women. That's all well and good, but he shouldn't have gotten married. He made a commitment to you and there is no possible GOOD excuse for being with another woman.
Unfortunately for you, his behavior is a pattern that I think you'll see again in the future. Some people cheat once and it's the end of the world to them. They make a mistake, understand it's wrong, and never ever EVER do it again. They feel very remorseful. Your husband on the other hand? It doesn't sound like he feels bad for cheating on his ex. And it doesn't seem like he did it just once. Question, did he cheat on his ex with you?
And the fact that he's using bringing another woman into your bed as rationalization to cheat is bad. I don't see him being faithful in the long run.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 September 2010):
He's not addicted to cheating. No man is. You've just married a selfish, arrogant pig of a man. If he loved you, he wouldn't be dong this. He cheated on his ex, and he cheats on you and plays you against other women. If I were you, I'd ditch this guy before you catch an STD, or he dumps you or something.
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