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36-40,
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writes: This same sorta question probably appears a lot but anyway...I met this guy in work just over a year ago and really hit it off we liked all the same music and tv shows and I had never met someone so like me before... Everyone in work thought we were boyfriend and girlfriend cause we spent all day together and because of a chemistry we had, I did fancy him but nothing happened and then he started to date this goregous girl who no one liked and they kept telling me we should be together and although I think he is great he does seem very shallow and always fancies stunning looking girls so I really know I have no chance with him. But recently we went to a gig together on our own and everyone made jokes, that it was a big date. But I just laughed it off. But recently he got drunk and asked my sister, did I fancy him. which yes, ok I do, but I have never said it and now I'm worried I have been flirty and that now that's all he thinks is that I fancy him when I'm with him and just being matey, it sucks when you find your ONE but they didn't find theirs in you... Any advice
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reader, VikkiDec1 +, writes (22 September 2010):
This guy definately has some feelings for u, but probably just needs to spend some more one on one time with u. guys can sometimes be shallow, but u shouldnt judge him and think thats all he wants. when it comes down to it, i feel that guys really do want a nice, down to earth girl that they can actually have fun with. Just be yourself and if he doesnt like that, then someone else is out there that will love u for u.
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