A
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age
41-50,
*aby E
writes:Good evening Baby E here so i've done it after 3 yrs of my life which i've now wasted i've been seeing this guy his got a hectic schedule for this year we only saw each other thrice... saturday night he surprise visited me but i was upset with him as i keep asking him to try and make time for us and begging him as my feeling have been fading and now that i dumped him i feel so bad so guilty and rotten... i'm missing him terribly and not sure that my choice was the right 1 but i don't want to waste my time, he asked me to give him 2 years just to sort out his things but if life with him is like this then i don't really want it where he goes golfing with his friends and all work functions but never has time for me, we've been through so much, he's always stood by me. Normally if we break up i'm the one to talk first and ask for forgiveness but so far i think i've been strong, haven't called him nor text him as yet, well he hasn't made any effort as yet either. Could it be that this is what he wants... I asked him what does he want and what does he expect me to do when seeing him "i must jump him kiss him hug him and support him and encourage him as i always have... "I know his love is real but is it enough for me to be treated like this? In a way i've been neglected and always looked for hope he was the one that was there for me when i was almost raped by my brother in law and supported me when i wasn't working made me feel like a queen.. yes i still have a lot of love for him.
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reader, Baby E +, writes (24 September 2010):
Baby E is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGrace i'm so greatful to you answering my troubles well we have now officially seperated and we seem to have another problem ... well as they say when it rains it pours ..
we spent our last day together Wednesday and yes we got intimate as our love is still strong when i got home i never realised my pills were finished as someone was in my cupboard .. well i think it's to early to say but what if i'm pregnant , what is my options and seeing that we can't really have a life together is it really worth our time to have one ... should i tell him if i am ??? i treally think it's too many questions to early .. . i know my son of 9 will be real excited as my biological clock is running out and his an only child. i don't no any more i'm too confused as always am i thinking straight ??/
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