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36-40,
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writes:My boyfriend of a little over one year is 20 (Four years younger than me). We met working for a national park last summer and have been traveling around for the last year. Anywho, my problem is that he has no creativity or originality when it comes to our relationship. I like surprises, spontanaety, simple acts like doing the dishes or having dinner ready for me when I come home. He spends most of his time playing video games, drinking beer or jerking off. He has so much potential to be a great, creative, interesting person but he is just soooooooooo lazy. I'm getting really bored.I'm not looking for the obvious answer "just leave him!". I do love the guy. Any suggestions on ways to wake up my lazy-ass inconsiderate boyfriend????
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reader, Eskim0  +, writes (20 September 2010):
The problem with a lot of girls, I find, is that they tend to fall in love with a guy's potential.
You realise that there are guys out there who are not just potentially great, but are already awesome right?
I went out with a guy for five and a half years who would chillax and only play video games all day, and well...no matter how much I tried, he never changed. Just sayin'
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2010): A good thing to do is to give him gentle pushes in the right direction, or just help him change in the direction that you want. Since you love him and he loves you then both of you can work towards this improving this relationship.
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