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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: What are the statics of this relationship lasting?1. You are unhappy to begin with because of a break-up from a long term partner.2. You rushed into another relationship3. You cheat on the new partner after 2 months4. Your unhappy at 8 months with yourself and with your partner.5. You then cheat again on the new partner at 10 months w/ your old partner6. The partner you cheated on immediately wants to get back together/ believes your lies/ wants the relationship7. The two might get back together but the cheater is still unhappy with themselves internally.What are the chances of either partner being happy after getting back together, and what are the chances of it ending badly because the cheater is unhappy with themselves before the relationship even started is unhappy in it, and then stays in it?Also, what are the chances that the one who cheated will be cheated on after getting back together, lies will occur, fighting will occur? I've heard and witnessed that most of the time if a couple gets back together after cheating they MAYBE will be great to eachother at first but most of the time it either draws them further apart ie. staying together but not really being together at heart or one person decides that they cannot be together.Thanks a lot!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2010): The relationship can only work if you both want it to,i know of many couples who have survived to tell the tale due to their hard work of wanting to be together
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