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anonymous
writes:i have been with my boyfriend for 6 years an have a 2 yr old daughter.i just found out that he cheated on me.when i asked him about it he lied over an over an after i got all the clues he told me yes but he did not have sex with her.plus i have been looking though his phone an he has been watchin porn.please help! me i cant trust him no more.if he lied about cheatin on me how do i know he is not lieing about haveing sex with her or any other girl plus he lies about watchin porn.please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010): I'm afraid that this is quite possible, honey.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010): There's always two solutions in the whole cheating situation in relationships.
1. Quit the whole emotionally torchering yourself act after he's cheated, (always wondering if he'll going to do it again, if he's lied about something else, what possessed him to do it, etc) by LEAVING him.
2. Open up to him and tell him exactly how you feel. And if he loves you enough eventually over time he'll earn back your trust.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (20 September 2010):
 I wouldn't believe him for a second, especially that he didn't sleep with her. What does he mean cheating if there wasn't any sex? He continued to lie, even when confronted. He doesn't even feel remorseful, instead he just piles on more lies. He sounds like an incredibly untrustworthy guy who lies to get what he wants. I would leave him immediately.
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