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writes:Lately I have been so stressed out and crying and been so emotional thinking too much about our relationship failing or him leaving or me not having feelings for him anymore...I dont know where these feelings have come from or why but I cant handle it anymore...I am very much still in love with him but its very hard to keep convo going and to stay happy because all these thoughts just continue to run through my mind, could it be because its our time to let go? am I just thinking too much about it? It feels like our relationship has become awkward and me and my fiance has talked about it many times and he constantly tell me he isnt going anywhere and that he loves me and hes fine but its still in my head why wont it go away?? it is ruining our relationship and thats not what we want at all PLEASE HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2010): I have been through the same situation with my current bf. I think the feelings you are having derive from fear. It can be scary to take a relationship to the next level so sometimes we invent problems and/or worries. The best thing you can do now is to focus on yourself and your own insecurities. Realize that there is nothing you can do to control how he feels. If he says he loves you, believe him. I know this isnt easy but if you want to salvage your relationship you need to put your complete trust in him and get back in touch with your own feelings. Also, sometimes our thoughts get in the way of our realities and the good things we have going for us in our lives. Next time you feel this way, recognize it for what it is, a feeling. It is not reality, its just a feeling and allow it to pass instead of dwelling on it. This is the only way to move foward in your relationship. Good Luck:-)
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