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writes:Dear Cupid,I've been with the same man for 20 years, and I am still horny for this man. I am 44 years old, and he is 52. I want to spice up the relationship because our sex life has gone down. I know that our age difference may play a big roll, but I am missing out! I need to have sex, and I feel like I can't get it to stick it in me anymore. His birtday is just a few days away and I need to find a way to make him horny for some birthday sex. PLease help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): Consider over-the-top blatant foreplay. It's his birthday after all. Start some hours beforehand so that he ends up totally wanting it.
Things like bending over with no bra. Or flashing him with no knickers on, maybe even with Happy and Birthday written on your inner legs. Or nibbling on his ear lobes. Then work up to grabbing his hand and holding it against your breasts or sex. Of offering him your nipple to suck, giving him a few seconds, and slipping it back into your top. Or rubbing the crack of your butt against his sex. In the last while stroke or lick his sex for half a minute or so.
Just something every ten or twenty minutes. You're an inventive woman, you know what will work for him.
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (20 September 2010):
 As dirtball said, there are lots of options to consider. Roleplay is a good one to try, also some light S&M like tying him up and/or blindfolding him.
Try taking pics/video of yourself wearing your sexiest underwear and send them to him on his birthday, that ought to get him going aswell!!! Using candles and music to set the romantic mood would work also.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (20 September 2010):
 Foreplay and more foreplay. That's usually quite good for stoking the fires. Does he have any fantasies? Are there any that you could act out? How adventerous have you been in the past? You have tons of options.
Go out for dinner at a nice restaraunt. Try and get a table somewhere away from prying eyes. Hopefully it's a place with nice tablecloths. Sit by his side, and not across from him. After the food arrives, reach under the table casually and start stroking him. You might not want to give him a full on handjob until you get to the car, but teasing him the whole meal would be a great start. Tell him how sexy you still find him, and how much you love him. I think that if you can jump him once you get into the car, you're off to a great start!
Ok, will kids be around? Because that could limit your choices.
How about this, pending no kids. Prepare him a special dinner, and serve it to him wearing only an apron. If he asks what this is about you tell him it is his special birthday meal. Once that's done, he can have you for dessert! Right there on the table preferrably.
Alright, I've given you a couple ideas to use. There are a ton more possibilities out there for you! I hope you two have a lot of fun!!!
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