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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:ive been dating my boyfriend for 22 months. Everything was good until about u year ago he told me he didnt have any feelings for me, even though he said he didnt mean it, i just cant believe it. Lateley i just get the feeling that i jus annoy him. He just gets irratated when i talk. I get so paranoid that he doesnt love me anymore, i just get that feeling, because we always fighting, and even when im not in the wrong i still have to run after him apolagising. I love him way to much to leave him because maybe im just being paranoid. When i see him in public i just see this annoyed look on his face, and refuses to kiss me and just always says 'okay okay' . He claims that he loves me and wants to move in together sometime. I dont know if me being very emotional and paranoid is ruening our relationship. I mean these are just the things that bother me, there are good things. Please please please help me. Im so confused. Is it me? Or does he still love me? :( thank you! Reply to this Question
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reader, VikkiDec1  +, writes (22 September 2010):
 The best thing for u to do now is to give him space and time to figure himself out. It seems like he forgot how much u mean to him so he needs a wake up call. If he does love u and wants to move in with u, he will come back and love u even more than he already does. It may take a week, few weeks, or even months until he comes around, but I have a feeling he will. I have been in a similar situation and this worked for me and I am confident it will work for u. If he doesn't come back after that, were u even happy with this guy? Do u really want someone that is annoyed by u and seems to ignore u? I know u dont want that, girls want to be loved and cared for.
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