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anonymous
writes: Hello Dear Cupid,I just had a quick question for everyone, who may be able to help me out? We all know how once you've been dating someone a while stuff in the bedroom can get overplayed, and boring. I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas on how to spice it up in the bedroom?-Much thanks Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010): I once had this sort of religious GF where she'd only give me HJs. After awhile they got kinda boring, and one time when she was giving me one, she got up off her knees and said hold on a second. Id just gotten back from Vegas and bought her this shot glass. She came back with it and kinda dangled in front of me and said so playfully, "Look what I have!" hehe and I just went along with it and she sat back down, set it down next her and kinda giggled. She just stared at me and said "I want to cum in my glass for me" and she jerked me off into it. The fact she took the initiative to spice that up and believe me, I came a gallon as the thought of something different turned me on extremely lol. From there, I started coming up with ideas like bras and even high heels. In turn, she got incredibly turned on and because we both respected each others limits and had certain limits to what we wanted to do because of our beliefs, that just made us get more creative!!!
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reader, ashaw +, writes (20 September 2010):
If the rest of your relationship is really strong, start discussing fantasies. Be careful though, as insecurities can come out of nowhere. Maybe start off by trading just a couple of your simpler fantasies.
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