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*icosuave90
writes:Hey everyone! Im going to be very discreet yet detailed in my situation so all you guys can completely understand everything and give me 100% honest feedback.My ex-girlfriend and I of eight months just broke up a few days ago (Sept. 16). She is 21, beautiful, and already knows what she wants to pursue in life (currently a hair stylist). I am 20 and Im a college student and I have a part time job. The last few months of our relationship have been a roller coaster ride...we are extremely happy together at points, and then at other points we argued alot. The arguments were normally based around me and some of my personality traits. Im a very outgoing person and not afraid to talk and make new people. She is very shy at first, but soon breaks out of her shell once she gets to know people. Im also the first non white person she has dated (Im Puerto Rican, shes Italian)so it was a completely different experience for both of us.As the days passed on, I knew she was acting different...she wouldnt hold my hand, she would hug me as much....and became of having sex 1-2 times a day, ended up to about 1-2 times a month at the last month of our relationship. I can care less about the sex, but i cared more about how we stood as a couple. Eventually we broke up, but we didnt end it on a bad note. Believe it or not, it actually became a mutual decision. The night we broke up, we were in my car just talking. She cried her eyes out saying that she never wanted to hurt me. Yea it was tough to go thru, but like i said, it became a mutual decision. After all the tears were wiped, i told her that all i want her to do is be happy...i want her to travel, meet new friends and to not be afraid to do things. She told me she never in her life felt for someone like me, and that she really does love me and care for me. But at the moment, the relationship isnt at the right time...she needs to focus on her job (which involves traveling) and i gotta focus on getting my degree.Its only been 3 days, and already were better...were talking normally (not as much though) and were both able to go out and enjoy life without worrying about each other...i really do love her alot and she says she loves me alot. i wanna get back with her someday, but is that realistic? im going away next semester for college (not far away, only about 30 minutes away from my house) and im getting a dorm...i feel like being away from my parents house is gonna help us come back to each other and possibly start all over againWHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK?!?!?! I NEED HELP ASAP!Thanks!
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reader, Red591 +, writes (20 September 2010):
 I would forget about it for now. She wants freedome so give it to her. Let her go. if its meant to be it will happen but u can't force it.Tell her she knows where to find you and wish her luck. Don't wait on something that may not happen and may not be meant to happen.
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